Showing posts with label decisions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label decisions. Show all posts

Friday, November 10, 2017

Keeping the Scoop


As I finished up a can of whey protein, I stood staring at a little plastic scoop in my hand. And like every other human my brain quickly and frantically searched for a use, a home, a reason to keep this odd little item that can only be acquired by purchasing a (fairly) specific product.  My brain cataloged all the client’s homes that I‘ve found these in, in friend’s homes, in my own mother’s home (in the utensil drawer when I was growing up - awwww). I thought ”Everyone seems to have one in their kitchen - everyone.” My brain, feeling encouraged, continued falsely assuming that it was growing momentum, “I could put in the sugar, the flour, the baking soda, salt, and anything decanted really.” At last the fog lifted.

Why was my brain so frantically thinking of reasons to keep the little scoop? Because it knows I’m well trained to resist such temptations and it had better act quickly if the fate of that little scoop was to live in my home, possible accumulating other little scoops, maybe someday getting a whole scoops drawer. But that was not to be!

Once I took control my brain turned on a dime and began down the familiar, well-worn path: Where would it live? Doesn’t everything scoopable come with another scoop? There’s nothing different between this scoop and a measuring spoon (which has a lot more uses). Everyone has (at least!) one and I use the same reasoning on them all. Conclusion: Goodbye little scoop!

It got me thinking about my own habits. This is pretty much what I automatically do when I encounter anything that I might want to keep, a cute button, an empty sauce jar, the ribbon wrapped around my new dish towels, and the scoop in the whey protein. All trash, really. Oh sure, appealing, eye catching trash but trash just the same. So, what to do?

Everything in my home passes the “keep test”, using the following questions:

Do I need, use, or love it?
What (very specifically) will I use it for?
When will I wear it? Really??
Does anything I own do the same job?
Where will it live?
Is it realistic to my lifestyle?

So let’s take the items above and put them to the test:

A cute button:
Do I need, use or love it?
Answer: It’s cute.
What would I use it for?
Answer: ------
Where will it live?
Answer: My sewing kit.
Is it realistic to my (non-sewing, non-crafting, non-remembering that I have a cute little button in my sewing kit) lifestyle?
FAIL!!!! Goodbye cute, little button.

An empty sauce jar:
Do I need, use, love it?
Answer: ------
What will I use it for?
Answer: What WON’T I use it for??????!!!!!!
Specifically??
Answer: ----
Does anything I own do the same job?
Answer: Yeaaaahhhhh.
FAIL!!!!! Goodbye empty sauce jar.

The ribbon wrapped around my new dishtowels:
Seriously???????
FAIL!!!!! Goodbye ribbon.

The idea behind all of this is that you put some thought into an object before it earns, that’s right, earns a place in your home. Without thought, you’ll probably keep something you don’t really want; you’re just not sure what to do with. 
Put everything to the test. It only takes an extra minute or so at first until it becomes habit.

Give a little thought to every little thing and before you know it you’re recycling bin will be overflowing and your countertops will thank you for it!

The scoop that stopped me in my tracks

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Back to School - Get Prepped!

It's almost back to school! Take a night to have kids try on clothes. Make it fun- 


smaller kids can have a fashion show...craziest outfits! You just want to see what 


fits and what you need to buy, alter, mend. Have older kids decide what they will 


or won't wear this year. No point taking up space in the closet for something that 


will never leave it! And don't forget the shoes!!!!

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Friday, October 7, 2011

Quote her!

"You can destroy your now by worrying about tomorrow." 
                                                                           -Janis Joplin

Friday, September 16, 2011

Greeting Cards



It's so great to receive a card, who doesn't love that? Always brings a smile to this gal. But if you've saved every card you ever received, it's time to think about letting them go. Grandma won't mind if you don't keep the card she sent you on your 5th birthday - I promise. I know, you think you're going to cozy up one rainy day with hot cocoa and a blanket and re-read those cards. Guess what? That's never going to happen! Too harsh? Ok, how about you go through that giant stack, box, chest of cards and pick out a couple that really are meaningful. Maybe somebody made it for you or wrote a really beautiful note. Then, sure, that might be a keeper. Now, where are you keeping it? If it's in a box in a closet, it's not going to make you smile. Put it in a frame or display it some place that you'll see it everyday...and smile. If it's special, treat it like it's special.  Now for the others...if you can't get rid of all the Number One Mom cards, how about scanning them? Now you can put them on your desk top in a slide show that can remind you all day long that you're a super mom! Oh, what's that, a smile? Make sure to recycle or find someone who'll use those old cards. During specific times of the year St. Jude's collects the front of greeting cards and the kids use them to make their own cards and earn some pocket money...try it, and pass along that smile. : )
www.stjude.org

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Back to School! Already??

It's almost back to school! Take a night to have kids try on clothes. Make it fun- 


smaller kids can have a fashion show...craziest outfits! You just want to see what 


fits and what you need to buy, alter, mend. Have older kids decide what they will 


or won't wear this year. No point taking up space in the closet for something that 


will never leave it! And don't forget the shoes!!!!

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Linens 'n' Things

For those of us lucky enough to have a linen closet (hey! I'm from Manhattan- it doesn't happen!), sometimes it's a little tempting to pile in everything that doesn't quite have it's own home.  Or it becomes a great place to shove things when the doorbell rings! My client had that habit and we wanted to help her break it.  We started off, you got it, emptying everything out.  It was important that we ask with each item, "Does this have a home someplace else?  Would it make sense to keep this item in a different place?"  My client made great decisions like keeping the stray holiday decorations in a holiday box in the garage.  There were some items that definitely belonged in the kitchen, and so on.  A couple of items that she didn't remember she had went to  donations and she was breathing easier. What she had left was a really nice size closet for - you got it- her linens!  And now when she's tempted to shove something in that closet when it doesn't belong- she thinks 21times!